My sister once told me:

Sometimes people abuse you or ignore you because they love you too much... They are afraid that you might leave them one day... and when that day comes, they will not have the capacity to handle your departure.. Thus they distance themselves from you from the very beginning.. hoping that when that day arrives... They will be able to handle it better...

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How I wish that this the reason why people distance themselves from me... Then my loneliness won't be in vain...